A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_URI::$config is deprecated
Filename: core/URI.php
Line Number: 101
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Router::$uri is deprecated
Filename: core/Router.php
Line Number: 127
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Publications::$benchmark is deprecated
Filename: core/Controller.php
Line Number: 75
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Publications::$hooks is deprecated
Filename: core/Controller.php
Line Number: 75
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Publications::$config is deprecated
Filename: core/Controller.php
Line Number: 75
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Publications::$log is deprecated
Filename: core/Controller.php
Line Number: 75
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Publications::$utf8 is deprecated
Filename: core/Controller.php
Line Number: 75
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Publications::$uri is deprecated
Filename: core/Controller.php
Line Number: 75
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Publications::$exceptions is deprecated
Filename: core/Controller.php
Line Number: 75
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Publications::$router is deprecated
Filename: core/Controller.php
Line Number: 75
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Publications::$output is deprecated
Filename: core/Controller.php
Line Number: 75
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Publications::$security is deprecated
Filename: core/Controller.php
Line Number: 75
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Publications::$input is deprecated
Filename: core/Controller.php
Line Number: 75
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Publications::$lang is deprecated
Filename: core/Controller.php
Line Number: 75
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Publications::$load is deprecated
Filename: core/Controller.php
Line Number: 78
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Publications::$db is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 390
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_DB_mysqli_driver::$failover is deprecated
Filename: database/DB_driver.php
Line Number: 371
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Return type of CI_Session_files_driver::open($save_path, $name) should either be compatible with SessionHandlerInterface::open(string $path, string $name): bool, or the #[\ReturnTypeWillChange] attribute should be used to temporarily suppress the notice
Filename: drivers/Session_files_driver.php
Line Number: 113
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Return type of CI_Session_files_driver::close() should either be compatible with SessionHandlerInterface::close(): bool, or the #[\ReturnTypeWillChange] attribute should be used to temporarily suppress the notice
Filename: drivers/Session_files_driver.php
Line Number: 280
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Return type of CI_Session_files_driver::read($session_id) should either be compatible with SessionHandlerInterface::read(string $id): string|false, or the #[\ReturnTypeWillChange] attribute should be used to temporarily suppress the notice
Filename: drivers/Session_files_driver.php
Line Number: 145
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Return type of CI_Session_files_driver::write($session_id, $session_data) should either be compatible with SessionHandlerInterface::write(string $id, string $data): bool, or the #[\ReturnTypeWillChange] attribute should be used to temporarily suppress the notice
Filename: drivers/Session_files_driver.php
Line Number: 223
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Return type of CI_Session_files_driver::destroy($session_id) should either be compatible with SessionHandlerInterface::destroy(string $id): bool, or the #[\ReturnTypeWillChange] attribute should be used to temporarily suppress the notice
Filename: drivers/Session_files_driver.php
Line Number: 303
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Return type of CI_Session_files_driver::gc($maxlifetime) should either be compatible with SessionHandlerInterface::gc(int $max_lifetime): int|false, or the #[\ReturnTypeWillChange] attribute should be used to temporarily suppress the notice
Filename: drivers/Session_files_driver.php
Line Number: 344
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: Warning
Message: ini_set(): Session ini settings cannot be changed after headers have already been sent
Filename: Session/Session.php
Line Number: 281
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: Warning
Message: session_set_cookie_params(): Session cookie parameters cannot be changed after headers have already been sent
Filename: Session/Session.php
Line Number: 288
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: Warning
Message: ini_set(): Session ini settings cannot be changed after headers have already been sent
Filename: Session/Session.php
Line Number: 303
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: Warning
Message: ini_set(): Session ini settings cannot be changed after headers have already been sent
Filename: Session/Session.php
Line Number: 313
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: Warning
Message: ini_set(): Session ini settings cannot be changed after headers have already been sent
Filename: Session/Session.php
Line Number: 314
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: Warning
Message: ini_set(): Session ini settings cannot be changed after headers have already been sent
Filename: Session/Session.php
Line Number: 315
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: Warning
Message: ini_set(): Session ini settings cannot be changed after headers have already been sent
Filename: Session/Session.php
Line Number: 316
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: Warning
Message: ini_set(): Session ini settings cannot be changed after headers have already been sent
Filename: drivers/Session_files_driver.php
Line Number: 94
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: Warning
Message: session_set_save_handler(): Session save handler cannot be changed after headers have already been sent
Filename: Session/Session.php
Line Number: 107
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: Warning
Message: session_start(): Session cannot be started after headers have already been sent
Filename: Session/Session.php
Line Number: 140
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Publications::$session is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 1290
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Publications::$MPublicationsCategories is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 353
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Optional parameter $num declared before required parameter $category_id is implicitly treated as a required parameter
Filename: models/MPublications.php
Line Number: 33
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Optional parameter $offset declared before required parameter $category_id is implicitly treated as a required parameter
Filename: models/MPublications.php
Line Number: 0
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Optional parameter $num declared before required parameter $category_id is implicitly treated as a required parameter
Filename: models/MPublications.php
Line Number: 86
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Optional parameter $offset declared before required parameter $category_id is implicitly treated as a required parameter
Filename: models/MPublications.php
Line Number: 0
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Publications::$MPublications is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 353
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Publications::$MSettings is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 353
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$benchmark is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$hooks is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$config is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$log is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$utf8 is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$uri is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$exceptions is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$router is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$output is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$security is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$input is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$lang is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$load is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$db is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$session is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$MPublicationsCategories is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$MPublications is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$MSettings is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
Backtrace:
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Publications.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
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قَالَ ابْنُ إسْحَاقَ: ثُمَّ إنَّ أَبَا طَالِبٍ خَرَجَ فِي رَكْبٍ تَاجِرًا إلَى الشَّامِ، فَلَمَّا تَهَيَّأَ لِلرَّحِيلِ، وَأَجْمَعَ الْمَسِيرَ صَبَّ بِهِ [مَال إِلَيْهِ. تعلق بِهِ] رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ- فِيمَا يَزْعُمُونَ- فَرَقَّ لَهُ (أَبُو طَالِبٍ) وَقَالَ: وَاَللَّهِ لَأَخْرُجَنَّ بِهِ مَعِي، وَلَا يُفَارِقُنِي، وَلَا أُفَارِقُهُ أَبَدًا، أَوْ كَمَا قَالَ. فَخَرَجَ بِهِ [وَكَانَ رَسُول الله صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ إِذْ ذَاك ابْن تسع سِنِين، وَقيل ابْن اثْنَتَيْ عشرَة سنة] مَعَهُ فَلَمَّا نَزَلَ الرَّكْبُ بُصْرَى [بصرى: مَدِينَة حوران، فتحت صلحا لخمس بَقينَ من ربيع الأول سنة ثَلَاث عشرَة، وَهِي أول مَدِينَة فتحت بِالشَّام، وَقد وردهَا صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ مرَّتَيْنِ] مِنْ أَرْضِ الشَّامِ، وَبِهِمَا رَاهِبٌ يُقَالُ لَهُ بَحِيرَى فِي صَوْمَعَةٍ لَهُ، وَكَانَ إلَيْهِ عِلْمُ أَهْلِ النَّصْرَانِيَّةِ وَلَمْ يَزَلْ فِي تِلْكَ الصَّوْمَعَةِ مُنْذُ قَطُّ [أَي الدَّهْر] رَاهِبٌ، إلَيْهِ يَصِيرُ عِلْمُهُمْ عَنْ كِتَابٍ فِيهَا فِيمَا يَزْعُمُونَ، يَتَوَارَثُونَهُ كَابِرًا عَنْ كَابِرٍ. فَلَمَّا نَزَلُوا ذَلِكَ الْعَامَ بِبَحِيرَى وَكَانُوا كَثِيرًا مَا يَمُرُّونَ بِهِ قَبْلَ ذَلِكَ فَلَا يُكَلِّمُهُمْ وَلَا يَعْرِضُ لَهُمْ حَتَّى كَانَ ذَلِكَ الْعَامُ. فَلَمَّا نَزَلُوا بِهِ قَرِيبًا مِنْ صَوْمَعَتِهِ صَنَعَ لَهُمْ طَعَامًا كَثِيرًا، وَذَلِكَ فِيمَا يَزْعُمُونَ عَنْ شَيْءٍ رَآهُ وَهُوَ فِي صَوْمَعَتِهِ، يَزْعُمُونَ أَنَّهُ رَأَى رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، وَهُوَ فِي صَوْمَعَتِهِ، فِي الرَّكْبِ حِينَ أَقْبَلُوا، وَغَمَامَةٌ تُظِلُّهُ مِنْ بَيْنِ الْقَوْمِ. قَالَ: ثُمَّ أَقْبَلُوا فَنَزَلُوا فِي ظِلِّ شَجَرَةٍ قَرِيبًا مِنْهُ. فَنَظَرَ إلَى الْغَمَامَةِ حَيْنَ أَظَلَّتْ الشَّجَرَةُ، وَتَهَصَّرَتْ [مَالَتْ وتدلت] أَغْصَانُ الشَّجَرَةِ عَلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ حَتَّى اسْتَظَلَّ تَحْتَهَا، فَلَمَّا رَأَى ذَلِكَ بَحِيرَى نَزَلَ مِنْ صَوْمَعَتِهِ، ثُمَّ أَرْسَلَ إلَيْهِمْ، فَقَالَ: إنِّي قَدْ صَنَعْتُ لَكُمْ طَعَامًا يَا مَعْشَرَ قُرَيْشٍ، فَأَنَا أُحِبُّ أَنْ تَحْضُرُوا كُلُّكُمْ، صَغِيرُكُمْ وَكَبِيرُكُمْ، وَعَبْدُكُمْ وَحُرُّكُمْ: فَقَالَ لَهُ رَجُلٌ مِنْهُمْ: وَاَللَّهِ يَا بَحِيرَى إنَّ لَكَ لَشَأْنًا الْيَوْمَ، فَمَا كُنْتَ تَصْنَعُ هَذَا بِنَا، وَقَدْ كُنَّا نَمُرُّ بِكَ كَثِيرًا، فَمَا شَأْنُكَ الْيَوْمَ؟ قَالَ لَهُ بَحِيرَى: صَدَقْتَ، قَدْ كَانَ مَا تَقُولُ، وَلَكِنَّكُمْ ضَيْفٌ، وَقَدْ أَحْبَبْتُ أَنْ أُكْرِمَكُمْ وَأَصْنَعَ لَكُمْ طَعَامًا فَتَأْكُلُوا مِنْهُ كُلُّكُمْ. فَاجْتَمِعُوا إلَيْهِ، وَتَخَلَّفَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ مِنْ بَيْنِ الْقَوْمِ، لِحَدَاثَةِ سِنِّهِ، فِي رِحَالِ الْقَوْمِ تَحْتَ الشَّجَرَةِ، فَلَمَّا نَظَرَ بَحِيرَى فِي الْقَوْمِ لَمْ يَرَ الصِّفَةَ الَّتِي يَعْرِفُ وَيَجِدُ عِنْدَهُ، فَقَالَ: يَا مَعْشَرَ قُرَيْشٍ، لَا يَتَخَلَّفَنَّ أَحَدٌ مِنْكُمْ عَنْ طَعَامِي، قَالُوا لَهُ: يَا بَحِيرَى، مَا تَخَلَّفَ عَنْكَ أَحَدٌ يَنْبَغِي لَهُ أَنْ يَأْتِيَكَ إلَّا غُلَامٌ، وَهُوَ أَحْدَثُ الْقَوْمِ سِنًّا، فَتَخَلَّفَ فِي رِحَالِهِمْ، فَقَالَ: لَا تَفْعَلُوا، اُدْعُوهُ فَلِيَحْضُرْ هَذَا الطَّعَامَ مَعَكُمْ. قَالَ: فَقَالَ رَجُلٌ مِنْ قُرَيْشٍ مَعَ الْقَوْمِ، وَاَللَّاتِ وَالْعُزَّى، إنْ كَانَ لَلُؤْمٌ بِنَا أَنْ يَتَخَلَّفَ ابْنُ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عَبْدِ الْمُطَّلِبِ عَنْ طَعَامٍ مِنْ بَيْنَنَا، ثُمَّ قَامَ إلَيْهِ فَاحْتَضَنَهُ [أَخذه من حضنه، أَي مَعَ جنبه] وَأَجْلَسَهُ مَعَ الْقَوْمِ. فَلَمَّا رَآهُ بَحِيرَى جَعَلَ يَلْحَظُهُ لَحْظًا شَدِيدًا وَيَنْظُرُ إلَى أَشْيَاءَ مِنْ جَسَدِهِ، قَدْ كَانَ يَجِدُهَا عِنْدَهُ مِنْ صِفَتِهِ، حَتَّى إذَا فَرَغَ الْقَوْمُ مِنْ طَعَامِهِمْ وَتَفَرَّقُوا، قَامَ إلَيْهِ بَحِيرَى، فَقَالَ (لَهُ): يَا غُلَامُ، أَسْأَلُكَ بِحَقِّ اللَّاتِ وَالْعُزَّى إلَّا مَا أَخْبَرْتَنِي عَمَّا أَسْأَلُكَ عَنْهُ، وَإِنَّمَا قَالَ لَهُ بَحِيرَى ذَلِكَ، لِأَنَّهُ سَمِعَ قَوْمَهُ يَحْلِفُونَ بِهِمَا. فَزَعَمُوا أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ (لَهُ): لَا تَسْأَلْنِي بِاللات والعزّى، فو الله مَا أَبْغَضْتُ شَيْئًا قَطُّ بُغْضَهُمَا، فَقَالَ لَهُ بَحِيرَى: فباللَّه إلَّا مَا أَخْبَرْتَنِي عَمَّا أَسْأَلُكَ عَنْهُ، فَقَالَ لَهُ: سَلْنِي عَمَّا بَدَا لَكَ. فَجَعَلَ يَسْأَلُهُ عَنْ أَشْيَاءَ مِنْ حَالِهِ فِي نَوْمِهِ وَهَيْئَتِهِ وَأُمُورِهِ، فَجَعَلَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ يُخْبِرُهُ، فَيُوَافِقُ ذَلِكَ مَا عِنْدَ بَحِيرَى مِنْ صِفَتِهِ، ثُمَّ نَظَرَ إلَى ظَهْرِهِ، فَرَأَى خَاتَمَ النُّبُوَّةِ بَيْنَ كَتِفَيْهِ عَلَى مَوْضِعِهِ مِنْ صِفَتِهِ الَّتِي عِنْدَهُ.
قَالَ ابْنُ إسْحَاقَ: فَلَمَّا فَرَغَ، أَقْبَلَ عَلَى عَمِّهِ أَبِي طَالِبٍ، فَقَالَ لَهُ: مَا هَذَا الْغُلَامُ مِنْكَ؟ قَالَ: ابْنِي. قَالَ لَهُ بَحِيرَى: مَا هُوَ بِابْنِكَ، وَمَا يَنْبَغِي لِهَذَا الْغُلَامِ أَنْ يَكُونَ أَبُوهُ حَيًّا، قَالَ: فَإِنَّهُ ابْنُ أَخِي، قَالَ: فَمَا فَعَلَ أَبُوهُ؟ قَالَ: مَاتَ وَأُمُّهُ حُبْلَى بِهِ، قَالَ: صَدَقْتَ، فَارْجِعْ بِابْنِ أَخِيكَ إلَى بَلَدِهِ، وَاحْذَرْ عَلَيْهِ يهود، فو الله لَئِنْ رَأَوْهُ وَعَرَفُوا مِنْهُ مَا عَرَفْتُ لَيَبْغُنَّهُ شَرًّا، فَإِنَّهُ كَائِنٌ لَابْنِ أَخِيكَ هَذَا شَأْنٌ عَظِيمٌ، فَأَسْرِعْ بِهِ إلَى بِلَادِهِ.
أسس بناء شخصية الطفل المستقلة
بالطبع كل الآباء يتمنون تنمية شخصية طفلك، فهو أملهم في الحياة، وهو سيشارك في بناء مستقبل المجتمع فيما بعد، لذا يأملون بناء شخصية عظيمة له، حتى يمنحهم مستقبلا مشرقا ومشرفا.
وسلوكنا مع أطفالنا وطريقة تعاملنا معهم هى التي تحدد مستقبلهم، فكلما كان سلوكنا مع الطفل صحيحا ولائقا، نشأ الطفل نشأة سليمة دون أن يصاب بالعقد النفسية، ويصبح واثقا من نفسه وقدراته، وينعكس ذلك على من حوله، ويصبح أكثر إيجابية في تصرفاته.
وعلى الوالدين التقيد ببعض الأسس لمساعدة الطفل على تكوين شخصيته المستقلة، وهذه الأسس تتلخص فيما يأتي:
1- الرعاية والاهتمام من الوالدين دون المبالغة، والشعور بالمسؤولية تجاهه، وتلبية حاجات الطفل الأساسية كالغذاء السليم، الملبس النظيف، التعليم الجيد، الرعاية الصحية ومتابعته من حين لأخر.
2- تشجيع الطفل مما ينمي بداخله دافع الإنجاز، ويعطيه الفرصة للقيام بالأعمال الناجحة وإشعاره بسعادة لنجاحه في أي شيء، وألا نكلفه بمهام صعبة تفوق قدراته، وإلا شعر بالعجز والإحباط، وبالتالي يفقد الثقة في نفسه.
3- الانتباه لحالة الطفل النفسية وشعوره والتغيرات التي تطرأ عليه مثل القلق، عدم التكيف، والشعور بالعجز، ولعلاج ذلك علينا أن نهدأه ونزرع الثقة في نفسه وإشعاره بالحب والحنان والرعاية، وإلا سوف تتحول إلى مشكلات نفسية معقدة تؤثر على سلوكه، فيصبح عدوانيا أو منطويا.
4- دفع الطفل للأمام دائما من خلال البحث عن نقاط القوة في الطفل وتعزيزها وتشجيعها وتنميتها، وإرشاده إلى نقاط الضعف، وكيفية التغلب عليها، كالغضب السريع والخجل.
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