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Message: Creation of dynamic property Lessons::$output is deprecated
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Message: Creation of dynamic property Lessons::$security is deprecated
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Filename: Session/Session.php
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Message: session_start(): Session cannot be started after headers have already been sent
Filename: Session/Session.php
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A PHP Error was encountered
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Message: Creation of dynamic property Lessons::$session is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 1290
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File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
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Message: Optional parameter $num declared before required parameter $category_id is implicitly treated as a required parameter
Filename: models/MLessons.php
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File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
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Message: Optional parameter $offset declared before required parameter $category_id is implicitly treated as a required parameter
Filename: models/MLessons.php
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File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
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Message: Optional parameter $num declared before required parameter $category_id is implicitly treated as a required parameter
Filename: models/MLessons.php
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File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
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Message: Optional parameter $offset declared before required parameter $category_id is implicitly treated as a required parameter
Filename: models/MLessons.php
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A PHP Error was encountered
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Message: Creation of dynamic property Lessons::$MLessons is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 353
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File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
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Message: Creation of dynamic property Lessons::$MLessonsCategories is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
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File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
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Message: Creation of dynamic property Lessons::$MSettings is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
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File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
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Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$benchmark is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
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File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
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Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$hooks is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
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File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
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Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$config is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
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Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$log is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
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Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$utf8 is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
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Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$uri is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
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Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$exceptions is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
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Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$router is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
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Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$output is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
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File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
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Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$security is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
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Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$input is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
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A PHP Error was encountered
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Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$lang is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
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File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
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Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$load is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
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File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
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Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$db is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
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A PHP Error was encountered
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Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$session is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
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File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
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Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$MLessons is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
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File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
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Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$MLessonsCategories is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 925
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File: /home/alzatari/public_html/application/controllers/Lessons.php
File: /home/alzatari/public_html/index.php
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Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Loader::$MSettings is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
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موقع الدكتور الشيخ علاء الدين الزعتري | سر النجاح بين الزوجين
سر النجاح بين الزوجين
سر النجاح بين الزوجين
يجب الحذر من الإكثار من العتاب والملاحظة وكثرة التشكي والتبرم فإن هذا مُذهب للمودة منغص للسعادة:
إذا أردتِ صفاء العيش يا أملي فجنبي الصدر آثار الحزازات
نحي الخلافات عند دنيا محبتنا فالحب يذبل في أرض الخلافات
يا من تعاتبني والنفس عاشقة بلومها وهي لم تعلم بغاياتي
هل أصطفيك لنفسي إن بي شغفاً إلى اصطفائك يا أحلى ابتساماتي
وكيف لا أصطفي من يستريح لها قلبي ويسلم من تنغيص آهاتي
بعض الأحبة عبء في محبتهم وبعضهم خير عون في الملمات
ـــ الاحترام والتقدير المتبادل بين الزوجين فإكرام المرأة وحسن معاشرتها دليل على كمال شخصية الرجل ونبله وإهانتها علامات على الخسة واللوم.
فقد قيل: "ما أكرمهن إلا كريم وما أهانهن إلا لئيم".
كما أن احترام المرأة زوجها وتوددها له عند الانفعال والغضب دليل على رجاحة عقلها وحسن خلقها، كما قال صلى الله عليه وسلم: " ألا أخبركم بخير نسائكم في الجنة، قلنا: بلى يا رسول الله قال: كل ودود ولود إذا غضبت زوجها قالت هذه يدي بيدك لا أكتحل بغمض حتى ترضى. رواه الطبراني بسند صحيح.
والأجمل من هذا كله العذر المتبادل كما قال أبو الدرداء لزوجه: إن أنا غضبت فرضني، وإن أنت غضبتي فرضيتك، وإلا فلن نصطحب.
ـــ ليذكر الزوج أن زوجته تحب أن تجلس لتتحدث معه وإليها في كل ما يخطر ببالها من شؤون.
فكن منشرحاً واسع الصدر ولا تعد إلى بيتك مقطب الوجه عابس المحيا، صامتاً أخرساً.
ـــ لا تفرض على زوجتك اهتماماتك الشخصية المتعلقة بثقافتك أو تخصصك، فإن كنت أستاذا في الفلك مثلاً فلا تتوقع أن يكون لها نفس اهتمامك بالنجوم والأفلاك!.
ـــ إياك أن تثير غيرة زوجتك، بأن تذكِّرها من حين لآخر أنك مقدم على الزواج من أخرى، أو تبدي إعجابك بإحدى النساء، فإن ذلك يطعن في قلبها في الصميم، ويقلب مودتها إلى موج من القلق والشكوك والظنون.
كثيراً ما تظهر تلك المشاعر بأعراض جسدية مختلفة، من صداع إلى آلام هنا وهناك، فإذا بالزوج يأخذ زوجته من طبيب إلى طبيب ولا يدري أن المشكلة تكمن في تصرفاته.
ـــ لا تذكِّر زوجتك بعيوب صدرت منها في مواقف معينة، ولا تعـيِّرها بتلك الأخطاء والمعايب، وخاصة أمام الآخرين.
ـ عدِّل سلوكك من حين لآخر، فليس المطلوب فقط أن تقوم زوجتك بتعديل سلوكها، وتستمر متشبثاً بما أنت عليه، وتجنب ما يثير غيظ زوجتك ولو كان مزاحاً.
ـــ اكتسب من صفات زوجتك الحميدة، فكم من الرجال ازداد التزاماً بدينه حين رأى تمسك زوجته بدينها وأخلاقها، وما يصدر عنها من تصرفات نبيلة.
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